In Loving Memory
Elaine Dempster
May 1, 1944 – February 18, 2024
Funeral Service with Live Stream Available
11:00 AM PST
Saturday, March 2, 2024
Queen Margaret’s School (TLC Building)
660 Brownsey Ave, Duncan, BC
Private Interment Service
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Elaine Dempster Obituary
Elaine Dempster was born to Edwin and Lena Openshaw in May 1944, in Vancouver, BC. She passed away peacefully on February 18, 2024, in Victoria, BC, surrounded by her loving family.
Elaine was pre-deceased by her parents, and husband of 46 years, Lavern. She is survived by her brothers, Ron and Robert, her beloved children, Graeme, Cheryl, and Shawna, and grandchildren, Amelie, Zara, Sawyer, Nixon, Estelle, Frederick and Vaia.
After obtaining her teaching certificate Elaine started a career in education in the fall of 1965, teaching in Vancouver. She shared many grand adventures with her close friend Margie Grieve, making a round-the-world trip. In 1974, she married Lavern Dempster, and they settled in Duncan BC to start their family. Vancouver Island remained their cherished home for the rest of her life.
Elaine’s greatest treasures were her faith and her family, whom she loved unconditionally. Her enthusiastic love, kindness, and caring spirit touched the lives of all who knew her.
Her culinary skills were legendary, her hospitality endless, and her smile contagious. Elaine’s warm and welcoming presence made everyone feel at home.
She will be dearly missed but forever remembered for the love she shared and the joy she brought into the lives of those around her.
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Lovely to watch this service of a lovely , Godly woman. Our memories are of her and her families visit to our house when Graham lived with us in Edmonton for a while. Graham was excited for us to meet his parents and his twin sisters then in grade 11. A close, loving family. We also visited them at their place in Duncan and got the grande tour and fine hospitality and got to meet Grandma too.
Your Mother looked happy in every picture and certainly radiated from her life too. She has so much to go on to now. You had wonderful parents.
Neil & Charlene Goodkey
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To all of Elaine’s family – Thank you for sharing the beautiful tribute to a dear mom, grandma, sister and friend. She left a wonderful testimony and influence. Sending love and care, Loraine Stelfox , Heather & Ray Vannatter
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Thank you so much for sharing this service. Although I never knew Elaine personally, I discovered she was a jewel in God’s garden and I loved her testimony. I could see it from 1st glance how clear her eyes always appeared. Undoubtedly she came from good stock and I see the wholesomeness of all her friends and family. What a beautiful treasure. May the Lord bless you all.
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Big love to you all.
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I am truly thankful, for having known Elaine, as said, her smile was contagious, her Love for Truth glowed from her.
She was so sweet and caring, and her helping hands were so full of patience!
My Sympathy to all her family and her friends.
There is a new beautiful rose in Heaven, waiting with others in the garden, to bloom into the bride of Christ our Lord.
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My Dad, Donald Wells, wanted me to pass along this message:
Thinking of Elaine’s family and sending condolences for the loss of Elaine.
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Alayne Seru (Lennox)
Such a beautiful service and a beautiful soul! Precious memories. My mom and Dad are in a nursing home. But my mom Angie I wish I lived next door to let her watch this service. I didn’t know that where my mom met your mom was Armstrong and Vernon days. My mom was with Mabel who met your mom under the Eiffel tower! Mom always talked of that and the Europe days!
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It was very special to watch the memorial service today from Brisbane and to see and feel the love Elaine manifested for her faith, family and friends! So many special memories for you all that will keep and encourage you in days to come.. I remember Elaine especially at convention and her warm, welcoming smile but so enjoyed hearing more of her life and testimony today. Thank you for the privilege of attending and we send much love to all the family.
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Dear Family: The names, MR. PHILLIPS [Gordon], principal of the “Sir ? Fleming School” on 49th & Knight Rd., Vancouver, and MISS OPENSHAW [Elaine] were introduced to me in 1964…..5 years before I professed. My niece & *nephew, were students in that school. A month after I professed, 1969, I met ELAINE at a Sing-song that her mom, “HOPPING LENA [as she was nick-named]” & Elaine hosted. A sweet memory that I have of Elaine is this:- I don’t recall the year, but the TWINS were very very young at this Duncan convention! I said to Elaine, “HOW in the world can you tell them apart??!!” Her reply, “I CAN’T!! I have to look BEHIND their ears…one has a small birthmark & I know it is, & then she named the twin.” 🙂 !! On our 1st visit, I felt Elaine was a “True Blue”….loving The Truth!! AND she never waivered in her choice! She’s “hung her ‘shield of faith’ in victory!” I loved what Judy mentioned about Elaine’s ‘passing’ as “Elaine’s Moving-day”. A great comfort to family & all!!
*Yesterday, THIS nephew said: “In my album, I have a photo of MISS OPENSHAW. The caption reads: “MY FAVORITE TEACHER.” :-)!!
Thots & prayers are there with you dear family. Lotsa love… Betty Hredil, Penticton, B.C.
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Hello Folks!
My memories, go back, before your parents came to Duncan. I think of Charlie and Verna. And the great excitement that convention on the island meant to each heart that participated, in preparing for convention.
So, happy to look back, and realize all that Elaine and Laverne gave from their heart and soul.
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Thinking of all of you. It’s not easy losing a parent. We can be so thankful for the comfort of God.
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What a Special trip down memory lane today….oh how I loved big sis Elaine 🥰. Her Precious gift of a tea cup when I was 10 & hot cocoa served 🫶Great to see Ron & Robert too ❤️love & hugs to you all Carolyn (Price) & Floyd Dickson
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Graeme, Shawna, Cheryl and families, what a shock to hear of your Mom’s passing. Will always remember her hospitality and welcoming smile. Thank you for live streaming her service so that we could “attend” . Loved all the pictures, the Grandkids clips, and the video from your Dad’s service with Elaine playing the piano and you three “kids” on the violins. Hard to believe that both your Mom and Dad are gone now. Thoughts and prayers with all of you. Liz and Ron Sens. (Elaine’s cousin and husband)
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Dear Graeme, Cheryl, Shawna and families.
Your dear Mom has left us for her heavenly home but she had a very special place in our hearts and will never be forgotten. She will be dearly missed but we will treasure many special memories of her from the past and the lessons she left for us to learn. Her love and care for others was boundless and without judgment. Our thoughts and care will be with you in these darker days.
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Thank You, Elaine, for a beautiful example of a life well lived! Sympathy to the families in their loss.
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To my Dempster and Openshaw relatives,
Thank you so much for allowing those of us who couldn’t make it today to be part of “Auntie” Elaine’s memorial. She was such a positive influence on all who crossed her path. I am so grateful for all the memories I have of our visits when I was younger. You may not know but at my wedding she stepped in at the last minute to play the song I wanted to walk down the aisle too. When our pianist friend panicked. I will forever be grateful for that! Sending you all so much love.
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It was very special to hear and see on line, your mom’s service today. She was a very dear lady to all of us who knew her. As we think of her faithful life, it inspires us to keep on, being faithful in our place to God. Our thoughts are with all the families and friends who were very close to her. With love to all.
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I have known Elaine since I was a little girl and she has always been a part of my family. I especially loved to hear her voice singing in meeting and convention. My love to her family.
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It was a lovely service. We will always have wonderful memories of both Elaine and Lavern and their kindness, hospitality and deep faith in God. We know that you will miss your mother and father, grandmother and grandfather, but the memories you have of them, and the messages you heard today will comfort and help you in the days to come.
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Your mom was my mom’s best friend, and she was like a second mom to me and Stephan. She had time to listen, wise words of encouragement and cheerful optimism that always helped so much. We are thankful for her influence in our lives.
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Our thoughts are with you all. Your Mom was treasured and will be greatly missed by so many of us. Her hugs, love, encouragement, beautiful spirit, and radiance will never be forgotten. She played such an important part of my childhood and will continue to be a huge role model to our whole family.
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My earliest memories of Elaine are from evenings at the family home in Vernon in the 1950’s! We drove from Kelowna to spend a Friday evening with the family. We remember visiting Elaine and Lena in Vancouver. Later Laverne and Elaine visited us in Ottawa several times.
We will miss Elaine’s bundle of joy and energy, that she brought into every situation!
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We offer condolences to all the family for your loss.
We feel extremely enriched for having known Elaine for almost 60 years. Our memories of convention, weddings, visits at Rosevear Road, of our trip to Greece and Turkey and France are foremost in our minds.
To the family; take comfort in your memories and of Elaine’s and Lavern’s influence in your lives.
Harold and Brenda.
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Elaine was a special lady.. I’m glad for the memories of visits we had in various places as well as the hospitality we enjoyed in their home. She and Laverne were generous givers of themselves in many ways. Our hearts go out to all the family.
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This service was a lovely tribute to Elaine, your dear Mother and Grandma. We remember Elaine’s warm smile and the feeling that she was instantly your friend. One of our special memories is climbing with Elaine and Lavern up to the bluff at Salmon Arm convention in 1996. Our sympathy for your loss.
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As one of many fortunate enough to experience the hospitality of the Dempster family over the years, I am also grateful for good memories and to have been the recipient of positive influence that will last a lifetime. Kind regards to Elain’s family.
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I am sorry I was not able to attend in person… my thoughts are with all the family during this difficult time… May God be with you… Elaine was the most kind, thoughtful and hospitable person I know… I know you all have precious memories to keep close to your heart … take care
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Darrell & Darlene Presley
The service and Eulogy was very nice. Darrell Presley is your cousin. His mother was Ellen (Presley) (Miles) Dempster. We are very sorry for your loss.
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So appreciated the special service for your Mom, your Grandma and friend to all of us. We have all enjoyed your Mom and Dad’s hospitality love. ( As did Edgar and Peggy!) The strength and steadfastness your Mom and Dad had in Christ’s love helps us today.
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I have fond memories of Elaine and Marjorie visiting us in India during their world trip – nearly 60 years ago.
Love and greetings, Edward Good
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Very beautiful service. When we remember Elaine, we can’t help but remember her beautiful smile. She will be greatly missed.
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Our hearts are with you.
Love, Ivan & Sharon Kelly
Toledo, Oregon, USA
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So sorry for the loss of your dear Mom. We will always remember her warm, bright smile and her genuine kindness.
Milan and Teri Gillespie
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Thinking of you all today
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Beautiful service. We are thinking of you all. We certainly appreciated her infectious spirit. .
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Our condolences to all the Family and Friends. Elaine is a beautiful memory of my childhood such special times your kindness and smile forever in my heart Was a beautiful service much love to all the family xx
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We wish we could have been there today but we were very glad that we were able to watch this great tribute to one of the kindest people we’ve ever met. Our kids didn’t really get to know her but as we watched they said “wow, she seems like a really sweet lady”. We know you will miss her and we send hugs and love to you all.
Love Manson, Melanie, Vivienne, and Noelle.
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I and we Howletts knew Elaine from their family time in Vernon. She was always kind, cheerful and inspirational to me. Won’t easily forget those days!
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Good memories of a faithful friend who we got to meet at convention time, love to all the family.
Jason Rachel Brooklyn Olivia Christian.
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What a beautiful service. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. Her moving day has come.
I loved spending time with your family. Elaine was a beautiful woman. Her smile will live on in my memories. You made my family feel at home when we had no family here.
Love you all. May God give you strength and may all of her wonderful memories live on forever in your minds and hearts.
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Dear family.
We shall miss our dear Elaine so very much. She has always been as a special sister to me and been there at so many points in my life.. My mind and heart have been overflowing with wonderful memories of the years we shared a home and family together with my folks.
Elaine was kind, she was hospitable, she could be depended on, she was faithful., she cared about everyone and she was a friend. Elaine was “loving kindness” exemplified.
Gerald and Jeannie Cormick
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Elaine had the most warm and caring spirit! Her smile could light up any room and she was always happy to see you. Sending you our sympathies.
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Thinking of you and the family during this difficult time.
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We valued Elaine’s friendship and fellowship over the years. Our thoughts go to all the family ♥️
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Love and care to all of you. I loved her dearly too, and have wonderful memories that I cherish.
Beth WIlliston
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Have so many lovely memories of time spent with Lavern and Elaine!
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Elaine was such a wonderful person, an ambassador for the fellowship we share. Always welcoming guests to the convention grounds with the most beautiful smile. I will always hold her memory in my heart.
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Percy and Carol appreciate Elaine’s presence in Sunday morning worship in Calgary. She is a special influence for Jesus.
Her cheerfulness is helpful and her testimony edifying. We think of family missing Mother’s comfort.
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Sending love and thinking of all of you. Her cheerfulness and smile were beautiful! What a wealth of special memories she gave you.
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Our love and thoughts are with the Dempster and Openshaw families today. May this day bring comfort and blessing to all who live bed and appreciated Elaine and all who were loved by her so loyally and enthusiastically.
Dale and Colleen
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Dear Dempster Family,
I wanted to be with you this morning to show my love and appreciation for your dear family. (Road conditions North of Courtenay caused me to turn around) I am so thankful for and appreciate very much your Mum/Grandma’s warm love, kindness, joyful generousity, spunk, smile, and sparkle in her eye. I deeply appreciate the years that your family opened your home for all of us to visit every summer. I pray that you will all feel comforted and encouraged.
Ann Glen
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Our thoughts are with all who lived Elaine and experienced her love. We are sending our support to her precious family.
Dale and Colleen
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I remember Elaine from when the family moved to Duncan when I was just a kid – and was fascinated when Cheryl and Shawna were born, being a twin myself : ) She will be missed… Wish we could be there in person but we’ll be virtually there with you all, Linda and Kevin Gelaude
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My thoughts & my heart are with you all today as you lay your Mom to rest. I am sorry I cannot be with you in person, but happy some of our family is there to support you today. One can’t think of Elaine without remembering Lavern also, both had open hearts, open arms and open home to all, even joyfully let us claim their son Graeme as one of ours. Take care, Lenore
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Elaine’s friendship was marked with her joy , laughter, and care, but above all it was marked by her love of God and her faith. My memories are special of traveling times together. She will be missed .
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Thoughts are with you , Graeme, Cheryl and Shawna and families.
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Our sincere condolences to you all. Fond memories of my childhood years are with your family. Elaine patiently tried to teach me piano..I was more interested in riding my horse than practice… but Moms rides to your home were not for naught as she always had some goodies & tea afterwards. Will always remember her beautiful voice, kindness to all, smile & adoration for your Dad & you kids❤️. Your support and visits to her were evident in the time you spent with her. Love to you all as you say your final goodbyes, memories will not be taken from you. . Big hugs to you all! Love, Trevor&Heather
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Fond memories of Elaine when we lived in Duncan. Sincere sympathy to all the family. Marilyn & Hugh
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Elaine was a friend to so many. She brought her heart and full attention to each person in such a caring way. Only gratitude and pleasant memories remain from many years of her kindness as a neighbour and elder in our community.. She supported many people through many challenges with trust and optimism. Thank you Elaine for loving your family, friends and neighbours so heartily.
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Graham, Shawna and Cheryl,
And Grandchildren,
My thoughts are with you all today,
Elaine was a Special lady, and never was it just Elaine, Lavern and Elaine made a very special pair,
My memories of Elaine are many, she was a true Friend.
Always seeing where she could be a help to others.
I will always remember her true spirit.
With Love to the family,
Doreen Lewis
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Dan and Carol Douglas
Neither of us are able to attend the service in person but our sincere sympathy to all of you in the loss of such a delightful Sister, Mom and Grandmother. I am thankful to at least be able to watch and hear the service on line. Elaine was a cousin by marriage to me, Auntie Lena a loving sister to my step mom Verna Omdal. I still miss these ladies very much. My thoughts have been with all the family and am thankful for God’s comfort for each one.
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Elaine was special to us, like she was to many, because she opened her heart and made everyone she touched feel special. We have very fond memories of Elaine and Lavern. The path to their door and their hearts was never too far or too difficult to traverse. We’ll remember and treasure their influence on our lives.
Bonnie & Willis Turner
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“Miss Openshaw”, my wonderful Gr 2 teacher and my favourite teacher of all my years! (Mr Phillips was our principal) I loved seeing her over the years and she always made you feel special just like in school days. She had such a beautiful spirit and was always so positive and I loved to hear her sing. I will miss her.
Condolences to the family. May you have the comfort of heaven as you navigate days ahead without her.
Sharon (Pollock) Mulcahy
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Dear Shawna, Cheryl and Graeme,
Your mom was a such a sweet and caring person. She was warm and friendly to all us kids growing up, always kind and compassionate. She loved you all so very much, and I know you will miss her everyday. I’m very sorry for your loss, sending you love.
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Good memories of Elaine and Lavern. Appreciated their hospitality and open home
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Good memories when we think
Of your Mum.
Our deepest sympathy in your
Loss.
Love from the Fungs..
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A wonderful, radiant life and loving soul. Very thankful to have known your dear mom. Condolences to each of you and comfort in prayer.
Lots of love from our crew to the family.
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Just last week I woke our visiting granddaughters with “wakee, wakee, rise and shine,. It’s daylight in the swamp”. This was what Elaine said to me when she woke me up, when I stayed in her and her mom’s home, in 1970. As I said this that morning , I thought of Elaine and little did I realize that she would soon be wending her way to her Heavenly home. We met at Silverdale conventions and have been friends since. Elaine was a very positive person always cheerful, funny and with a welcoming spirit. Her congenial and exuberant nature was her Hallmark . She was a friend to all and a friend for all seasons.. Elaine’s loyalty and spiritual steadfastness will be remembered.
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Our love and deep sympathy in the loss of Elaine….Remembered from Vernon days, Salmon Arm conv. and many many times since! Such a lovely soul and a great example of a life well lived.
Love, Bob and Emily
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To Elaine’s children, Graeme, Cheryl and Shawna, and to Elaine’s brothers, Ron and Robert, we extend our sincere condolences.
My first memories are visiting and staying at Elaine’s family’s home in Vernon.. After High School Graduation, Elaine moved to Vancouver and settled in at her “2nd home”, the Cormick house (see Ronald Cormick below). For us young folks in the city, Cormick’s was “Action-Central” and Elaine was a “spark” in those activities. After UBC training, Elaine taught at two schools where my Dad was the principal and she quickly became known as a “cracker-jack” teacher (see Gordon Phillips below). The years have passed so quickly and it is very hard to say “Good-bye”.
We are thankful for so many fond memories of Elaine and for her encouraging influence.
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Dear Graeme, Cheryl ,Shawna and Families , as others have shared ‘ You had a Very Very Special Mom’. She seemed to have a Spot in Her Heart for Everybody and We were lucky to be the Recipients of That Love. Sending You All Love and Care Doug and Sandy Soderstrom
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Sincere Condolences to all the family. Elaine was a good friend. Hugs.
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We send our deepest condolences to you all. We loved our time with Elaine through all the years we served her. Our clients become cherished friends. Rest in peace, Elaine.
With love – all the ladies from Matisse Day Spa.
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Graeme, Cheryl, and Shawna and Ron and Robert and families
This is my third try at this… i just don’t know how to express myself at this loss but it’s my own fault. Elaine was my “sister”. Born in the same year and month. Years living in the same home. Ron and Robert are “brothers”. We lived and loved and laughed and cried together as a family does. We even graduated from UBC together. I went off to Oklahoma to grad school, later married, onto Pennsylvania then back to OK, started a family in ’73 and finally to TX. Elaine and Lavern started a family shortly after us. Time, distance and a busy life — we saw less and less of each other. But, I’ve always been encouraged in my spiritual life by knowing about Elaine’s stability, love, and honesty without any hypocracy. Now my sister has gone to the home she’s always kept in focus as a first priority. Now all my sisters from my earthly childhood home except my sister, Laverna, have departed. Elaine’s example will live on, through family and friends. For all of you left behind, I deeply feel your/our loss. If Pat wasn’t so seriously disabled I would be able to leave for a few days and be there at the funeral. We’re praying, with confidence, that you/we will feel the Comforter’s presence.
Love from Ron, Pat and family Cormicks
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Thinking of the family at this time. Brian and I have many cherished memories before she was married and after. She has finished faithfully and can now hang up her shield of faith.
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Elaine was much loved and appreciated by all who knew her.. We were on the receiving end of much generosity and kindness from Laverne and Elaine. Their sincere, dependable care for others was very evident. There are many good memories. She will be missed.
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Dear Graeme, Cheryl and Shawna,
I am so sorry to hear of your dear mom’s passing. What a beautiful and special lady. Your mom shared her love, kindness and caring to everyone she met. She had the most radiant smile, sparkly eyes and such a lovely singing voice! Her immense love for her family shone brightly. There is no doubt that her legacy is in all of you. Sending caring thoughts, treasured memories and warm hugs to you and the grandchildren.
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Thinking of the family in this time of sorrow and joy….
Elaine was a very special lady…and she had a gift of making others feel special …❤️
Another faithful pillar called home…heaven is richer…
With love and care….Richard and Becky Wodelet
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Us 3 teenagers from Manitoba attended Duncan Convention, It was the 2nd year Conv was there. We have Precious memories because your parents opened their grounds to wonderful privileges of fellowship with others. Sending condolences to the family.
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Dear Graeme, Shauna, Cheryl and families,
We send out sincere condolences and love across the water.
Oh the wonderful memories we have of the exuberant warm welcome we all received when we arrived from Port Angeles, WA for convention!
We’ll always value the Christlike, upright, balanced and compassionate standard we experienced over the years when with both of your parents.
We miss our heart to heart several hour visits we enjoyed among us.
Tom and Marlene McCurdy
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Elaine Dempster and her dear late precious husband are blessed examples on how Christians should conduct themselves upon others always with the Purity of God’s love and grace. They both have left a Legacy to behold upon my own Mountains of Life. As I Feel the bright Smile of God each day upon my soul, I am so anchored by both of their Christian Journey’s. T’s a Blessing indeed.
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Dear Elaine’s Family ~ Caring thoughts, and sympathy are reaching out to you all. You will well know your Mom was loved and appreciated by all who had the privilege of knowing her. She & I were “best friends” from the day we met in our early teens @ Salmon Arm Conv. And then a few years later she was my lovely Bridesmaid (Aug. 24th, 1962!) Through the years, nothing has changed in our friendship…. Her love and vibrancy were timeless and boundless! Now, to-day, we “Give Thanks” she has received her “Forever Home Call”. Love, Don & Edith-Anne Clegg
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We value the truth lived and taught by the Lord, we value the lives of your folks that expressed the living message of what it meant to be Christ like…with enthusiasm!
Good memories of a life well lived in your mother( and your father) and am persuaded the same qualities being in your own lives :Graeme, Shauna and Cheryl, and the lives of your children..
I remember the recounting of Elaine and Margie trip …told with love and emotion .
“Inspiring.’ Our thoughts and condolences to you all – the earthly separation….we share also in the joy of a life that’s made it safely home..
love Rob n Elva Stapleton
N. Ireland
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Thinking especially of you Graeme, Shawna and Cheryl.., with deep sympathy. Words could never express how much your dear mom and dad’s love and loyalty have meant to us through many years..
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Have great memories of Elaine & Lavern. My sympathy & thoughts are with all of you.
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So glad that we were able to meet your parents. Your mom was so kind. Thinking of you all and sending lots of hugs and love. Dawn Service
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My dear Graeme, Shawna and Cheryl and families .
You kids are much in my heart and prayers these days m. I have many special memories I shared with you and your family at Duncan . You kids were a great joy to your Mom and Dad … and now some of them lives on in you. So many things they taught you about love will be with you .
I arrived in BC in 71 .. when Nom and grannie lived together in Burnaby . Elaine’s kindness helped me over a very difficult time in my life . I am forever grateful for the refuge her home was for me , with love , auntie Gail
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Thinking of you all during these tough days. We will forever remember how we were made to feel like family since the day we met you all. Many years of meetings in your home and many meals, laughs and special times there. Your Mom and Dad were rock solid pillars and we have so much appreciation for their faithfulness to the end.
Big hugs to you all. ❤️
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We were saddened to hear of loss of Elaine. . She will be dearly missed by us all. Her love for others shone forth to all…she truly lived for others and did what she could while she could. Deepest sympathy go out to the family in your loss.
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Dear Graeme & Shawna & Cheryl,
You dears have had a Mom that was exceptional in so many ways. The most outstanding was her kind love & service that spoke volumes to all that knew her!
Elaine & Laverne have had & will always have a very special place in our hearts!!!
How can we begin to express our gratitude for times & fellowship together?
You all carry that same strong faith as your dear folks & for that we rejoice!
All our love,
Dan & Marsha
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Such great memories of Elaine. Her enthusiasim and smile will never be forgotten. Thoughts are with the family and all those who valued Elaine’s freindship over the years.
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Dear Graeme, Cheryl, Shawna and Families. Your mom was full of kindness. We felt it when we visited her. Much love and sympathy – Jett and Tammy Radom.
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Will remember her smile when first coming to Duncan.
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Oh dear Dempster family! Special thoughts go your way! My dad and I are sending deep condolences and love your way! Elaine was a special person to our family. For many reasons. She was a teacher in my dad’s schools in Vancouver. He hired her right out of UBC. Some of her students still speak of her!
She was a friend to all 5 of us!
A faithful lady and an inspiration and example to us!!
We are thinking of you all at this time!!
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Elaine will be remembered as a very close friend starting way back with activities at Corrmicks! When Elaine and Lavern were married they lived in a apartment very close to my parents home in N Burnaby and we saw them frequently ! She was my piano teacher for a time and I still benefit from her teaching skills. After I married and started raising a family we would spend many days and evenings at cornroasts and music nights with her unflagging hospitality all around us ! Even as her health was failing her good friend Irene would bring Elaine to our Radom music evenings and she would heartily sing hymns by memory. Her love for Gods kingdom will inspire me for ages to come
Thankful she has crossed the bar where tears and pain have no place.
Sincerely
Norwood
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We remember Elaine fondly, we think of you all with much love in your time of loss.
Taylor & Jacqueline McDaniel
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Heartfelt condolences to the family. We have many wonderful memories of times together in Victoria and Duncan.. We especially remember Elaine’s warm smile, positive attitude, and piano playing at our gatherings. A godly woman and good example to all of us. She will be greatly missed. Much love to the family from Don and Brenda
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Dear Family,
So very sorry for your loss.
It is really hard to lose a mother and grandmother.
Our thoughts are with you.
Tom and Marilyn
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Having been recipients of Elaine and Laverne’s gracious care and hospitality as many others, it was very special to return a little of it when they stopped with us here in Bergen, Norway a few years ago. We shared the sweetest fellowship together as ever, so good to think back on. With gratitude from Mark and Olaug
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Have many good memories of Elaine-in her Vernon days & Vancouver & Duncan . She was a lovely lady filling her place faithfully . Thanks Elaine ❤️ thoughts go to her family
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Elaine (and Lavern) was such a warm, compassionate and giving individual. Her positive and inclusive nature made her a treasured friend! Her love for her family and for her friends were legendary. She will be so missed by us all. Sending out love to the whole family.
Garry and Sherry Olson
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Elaine Dempster was a Very Dear Loving Friend To Us 0ver The Many Years. Elaine’s warm and welcoming presence made everyone feel at home. Her kindness, and caring spirit We Will Always Remember.. Elaine You Will Be Missed By All…Love June and Gerald.!
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Dear Elaine, a lively lovely lady full of energy and kindness. We enjoyed the Openshaws back in their Vernon days and ever since. I have sweet memories of her travel stories, her wedding, and helping in their move to Duncan. Through it all, Elaine was a faithful example to follow.