10 Comments

1. Sandra Stoops
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   I have the dubious distinction of owning Barbara’s Whitman cheerleading sweater which she passed on to me sharing our mutual need to be cheerful during rough times. We were Missionaries of sorts.
   Our reconnection in Berkeley meant so much to me, and then again in the Seattle area. Her insights & shared appreciation for artful things have meant so much. I miss her

2. Victoria Thomas
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   What a beautiful tribute to Barbara. She truly epitomized grace. She was
   so wise, gentle, and caring. She loved you, her family, so very much.

3. Linda Brown
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   What a beautiful service for a beautiful woman. I knew Barbara when we were both students at Whitman. But I also knew her in the 1980s because we bought their house on Alvarado Terrace when Matt and Barbara and the kids moved up into the mountains! And then when they moved down into Milton-freewater, I was coordinator for the Ferndale school district for homeschool kids which included those James kids! We hadn’t been in touch for a long time, but all the wonderful memories you shared in the service. have truly touched my heart. Thank you, Linda Brown.

4. Kathy See
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   What a perfect celebration it was of Barbara’s life and legacy. Thank you!

5. June Hunt
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   I’m a hiker friend from Berkeley who only knew Barbara long enough to do a few hikes, join with her for a few book club dinners and sample those great cookies for which she gave me the recipe. I sent a cookie tribute to her, via a friend, when we learned of her illness. It was a great, tearful honor to be able to see her family in the wonderful memorial tribute today. Thank you for making it possible.

6. Chitra Deshpande
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   What a honor for me to be part of this celebration and to remember Barbara James in the midst of her loved ones. I knew her through her children – mainly my dear friend Jenny. She raised the most intelligent, caring, sensitive and talented children. The values she imparted in them spread to all those around them. The ripple effects of Barbara James will carry on well beyond her life of earth. Rest in peace dear Mrs James. Sincerely, Chitra Deshpande

7. Amy Madison
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   I met Barbara many times through my dear friend Jocelyn. She was the picture of grace and always kind, calm and bright. I always wished to know her better than I did. I am so grateful to be able to join the memorial service, albeit remotely, to learn more about her and her life. What an incredible woman. It is a joy to hear you speak about her. This memorial has me both laughing and in tears. You have done a wonderful job remembering and honoring her. Thank you for arranging this livestream.
   Love, Amy

8. Annabelle Chern
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   Thank you all for inviting me to this beautiful memorial. Jenny’s mom and dad welcomed me into their kitchen many times over the years, initially as Jenny’s freshman roommate and later in our long friendship. I hold them in my heart and memory. Love to Jenny and family in this time of loss.

9. Kay Englund
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   Missing Barbara on our Wednesday walks. She was a warm, comforting presence in my life.

10. Ann Joseph
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    Barbara was an incredible person. Although I only met her at Ali and Tom’s wedding.. I instantly recognized what a unique and wonderful woman she was.. She was the most amazing Mother. to her gifted children. and grandchildren.
    I send my deepest sympathy to the family. Ann Joseph