In Loving Memory of
Frederick Conrad Hoffmann III
February 1, 1936 – November 6, 2020
Virtual Memorial Gathering was held on November 17, 2020 at 7:00 PM EST
Frederick Conrad Hoffmann III, 84, of Port Jefferson Station, NY, passed away on Friday, November 6, 2020, peacefully, surrounded by his loving family. Fred was born in Jamaica, NY on February 1, 1936 to Frederick Conrad Jr. and Clara (Flohr) Hoffmann. He graduated from Andrew Jackson High School in 1953, from Adelphi University in 1962, and earned a Master’s in Administration at Stony Brook University In 1977. Fred was the captain of his high school and college track teams. Fred was a veteran of the Army National Guard from 1959-1964. He married the former Diane Kuhn in 1960 and was married for 60 wonderful years. Fred had a rewarding 26-year career as a physical education teacher, and coach, at Comsewogue High School, where he retired in 1991. Fred thoroughly enjoyed teaching and coaching many sports over the years, including, track, winter track, cross country, soccer, golf, and bowling, Throughout his life, Fred enjoyed traveling the country with his wife. His hobbies included, fishing, golfing, bowling, cooking, watching sports, Jeopardy, politics, singing, giving nicknames, and spending time with his children and grandchildren. Fred was known for his vast knowledge of many subjects, especially sports and sports statistics, much like a sports encyclopedia. Fred touched many lives with his wise advice, was known for his quick wit and sense of humor, and brought joy to all who met him.
Fred is survived by his loving wife, Diane, of 60 years. They were a wonderful example of what love is, often saying, the secret to their long marriage was making each other laugh. Fred is survived by his siblings, Maland Hoffmann and his wife Barbara, Ellen Weinkauf and her husband Steven, and Garry Hoffmann and his wife Lynn, and numerous nieces and nephews. Fred and Diane had 4 children, Frederick Conrad Hoffmann IV and his wife Lynda, and their children, Frederick Conrad V and his wife Kristie; Douglas and his wife Samantha, Logan, Trystan, and Brandon, of Port Jefferson, NY; Matthew Hoffmann, of Royalton, VT and Son Quinn, of Jacksonville, Fla; Peter Hoffmann, of Port Jefferson Station, NY; and Christine (Hoffmann) Joy and her husband David, and their children, Ellen, Amy, and Nicholas, of Buckeystown, MD. Fred adored his grandchildren, and all 9 will miss their loving Grandpa. Fred was recently blessed with a great grandson, Steele Thomas, and was able to meet him earlier this month.
Due to the increase in Covid cases, the family has decided to hold a virtual wake.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to The American Cancer Society or The American Heart Association.
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Wanted to extend sympathy to the Hoffman family. Tiny was my cousin and we have not been in touch for decades. Another cousin, Bob Dishman passed on the obituary to me. Aunt Clara and my Mom were sisters and my sister Joanne and I have fond childhood memories of the whole Hoffman family.
Again prayers for Tiny and his family.
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We send our heart felt condolences to you all. We are thinking of you and sending you love during this very difficult time.
It was a privilege and an honor to get to meet and spend some time with Fred, he was a bright, kind soul.
Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Angela, Robert and Gaby
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Fred was one of the most delightful people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I don’t think I ever heard him speak in anger. That alone makes him a better man than I am. He was always full of cheer and humor. Lunch in the faculty dining room was a laugh fest when he was there. Fred and I didn’t cross paths that often after we both retired but whenever I did meet him it was like no time had elapsed since our last meeting. I will miss Fred. The world will be a little duller without him here with us. Rest In Peace my friend.
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Dear Diane,
We read this beautiful obit with tears in our eyes.
So once again, later on, we’ll have a visit by phone or e-mail-
reminiscing about our friendship starting in Comsewogue and
on through the years. What wonderful memories.
Love from The Harrells.
With Love from Carolyn and Jerry
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The Gaffney family sends their heart felt prays to the Hoffman family. I have great memories of the Gaffney & Hoffman clans getting together. Let’s pray they are together once again running track for Andrew Jackson H.S. in heaven.
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The Hoffmanns have been our neighbors and my parent’s best friends since forever – or at least since the day my Mom and Mr. H met while visiting the construction sites that became our homes. The Hoffs have always been like second parents to me and my brother and sisters. I will always remember Mr. H’s good humor, encouragement, cooking, fishing stories, our family trips to Vermont, and his nickname for me. Will miss him forever. Sending all my love, sympathy, and hugs to Mrs. H, Freddy, Matt, Pete, and Chrissy…Steff
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I remember Mr Hoffman as a wonderful man, and loving husband and father. His family was so close it was amazing. My condolences to his family, who must miss him terribly. I’m sure he will always be there looking out for you all. Keep the memories alive! ?
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I had Coach Hoffman in PE at Comsewogue HS from 1972-75, and he served as my track coach for all of my HS years. I became A PE teacher and Track coach myself, partially due to his influence. He will always be remembered fondly by me as a mentor and a wonderful man.
Stephen Savage, Comsewogue Class of 1975.
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Mr. Hoffman was adored by his daughter. So loved by all. Sending heart-felt hugs to your family. Carolyn Guenther King (Chris’s classmate from Gettysburg)
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Our thoughts and prayers are lifted during this difficult time. Though we never had the pleasure of having met, we have had the pleasure of friendship with family. We are heartened that he is beloved and at peace. May you find comfort in loving memories.
Warmest Regards,
Alice, Nadene and family